Pray for Wisdom

 It is pretty exciting that we are almost done with our fast. Only a couple of days left… 

 

I hope that you guys have really pushed through… I hope that you have created space for Jesus to speak to your heart and to your mind and I hope that you have been able to carve out some time to diligently seek Jesus in prayers.

 

Often times, one habit that I fall into is I will fast… but I will only take on the martyr-side of fasting. I will let myself suffer and convince myself that I am doing it for the Lord… but I won’t really press into him much during that time. Instead, I kind of just pout my way through the misery, committed to finish for sake of my pride but in the end it feels like I never actually met with God. 

 

and when that happens, it kind of defeats the whole purpose.

 

Because remember, you don't fast to get God to act. 

 

You don't fast to get heaven to move… its already moving. Its moving whether you move or not, it is moving whether you fast or not. Fasting creates space… it clears room in your life so that WHEN you pray, there is a margin in your life and in your mind… an empty room for God to set up shop in your heart and give you the wisdom that it will take to do his will. 

 

But what good is fasting, and clearing our minds, and opening our hearts, if we do not let those areas be filled with what God wants to do in our lives?

 

Paul prays an incredible prayer in the beginning of his letter to the Colossians (1:9-10):

 

“we have not ceased to pray for you, asking that you may be filled with the knowledge of his will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, so as to walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing to him, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God.”

 

Today we are praying this prayer… that we would be filled with knowledge OF his will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding. 

 

King David had this dream… to build the temple of the Lord. He was really disturbed by the fact that he lived in a castle, and that God lived in a tent. The tabernacle at that time was a tent. There was never a permanent home for it. 

 

So David said “lets change that.”

 

but God spoke to him and He told David that he was not going to be the one who would see that dream through, but rather, that dream, 

that huge, God sized dream, would be fulfilled through his son, Solomon. 

 

Near the time of his death, King David prays this prayer in front of the whole assembly and (1 Chronicles 29:19) in it he asks God to give Solomon “a perfect heart.” Obviously, the man who was going to carry on David’s dream had to have a heart like his. 

 

and When King David was on his death bed, at the end of his life, one of the final things that he teaches to his son in that final moment is this: 

 

1 Kings 2:6:

“Act with wisdom.” 

 

Rewind even further… When a young David is anointed by Samuel… Samuel is looking over the options of who this future king could possibly be, and David of course seems the least likely to be King, but God tells Samuel:

 

“Man looks on the exterior. But God searches the heart of man.” 

 

From the time he was very young, God recognized something in David. 

 

King David is the only person in the bible who is called “A man after God’s own heart” which means that when God searched the heart of King David, despite the exterior baggage that we all know was there, God saw something beautiful. 

 

And so now King David, in trying to impart something to his son, he gives him this nugget…

 

Act with wisdom. and in fact King David, in essentially the very last line recorded that he spoke to Solomon, he tells him: 

 

“You are a wise man.” 

 

King David sees this in his son, and he begins to speak it into his life… You are wise. You are wise. You are wise.

 

“And son, there is great value in that!”

 

So now Solomon is King. And he feels totally in over his head. 

 

andthe Lord appears to him at Gibeon him in the very next chapter (1 Kings 3:1-15) and says to him: 

 

“Ask what I shall give you”

 

What do you want, Solomon? Ask anything.

 

Solomon asks for wisdom. He basically tells God, “I am just a kid, I have no idea what I am doing. I don’t know how to navigate this incredibly important job that you have given me. 

 

He basically acknowledges from the beginning the same thing that we all need to acknowledge in our own lives with whatever mission God has placed before us…

 

“I am not adequate. I don’t know how on earth I am going to do this…”

 

“God, show me how to do this.” 

 

He asks for an understanding mind to govern God’s people, and ability to discern right from wrong. 

 

And God tells him, “because you asked for this, I will give you everything! I will give you everything you have asked, and everything that you didn't ask for. 

 

You didn't ask for money, I will give you money. 

You didn't ask for long life, I will give you long life. 

 

And what you did ask for, I will give you more than I have ever given anyone. In fact, I will give you EVERYTHING, more than I have ever given to anyone.

 

That, my friends, is the best way to get your prayers answered. 

 

That, is exceedingly abundantly more than we could hope or even imagine. 

 

No prayer has ever been answered in a more extravagant way. 

 

And then the very next passage tells us a bit about the wisdom that King Solomon now had.

 

As two prostitutes come to him with a baby… 

 

and one of them says to him that the other stole her baby. The explanation that she gave was that they both were pregnant, and they both gave birth basically at the same time, in the same house, and nobody else was there. 

 

And one of the babies died in the night, when the mother lay on him… so she stole the other baby and put the dead baby with the other Mother while she was sleeping..

 

So they are arguing back and forth about who the baby belongs too and so Solomon calls for someone to bring him a sword, and he says “we will cut the baby in half, and the two of you can split him.... Since you can't agree on who the mother is."

 

and right away one screams out “NO! Give the child to her.” 

 

Don't kill the child on account of this student argument.

 

but the other woman said “He shall be neither mine or yours; divide him” 

 

What an evil lady. 

 

and of course, Solomon saw at that moment a very clear picture of who the mother was, and so he gave the child to the woman who was willing to give the child to the other mother in order to save his life. 

 

and the bible says (1 Kings 3:28) “All Israel heard of the judgment that the king had rendered, and they stood in awe of the king, because they perceived that the wisdom of God was in him to do justice.” 

 

Wisdom is not information. But wisdom does know that you must seek information:

 

Proverbs 18:15 says “the ear of the wise seeks knowledge.” 

 

so if you have wisdom, you know enough to know that you have to keep learning. You have to keep growing. 

 

But learning is not wisdom. 

 

Wisdom is the ability to perceive. It is the ability to take information and piece it together with discernment. 

 

to separate what is of God from what is of man… to know in your heart, “This is going to be good… or this is going to be chaos!”

 

It is the ability to look past what is visible and into the heart of the matter. Into the heart of what is really going on. 

 

Wisdom lets what is in your mind get to your heart. 

 

Great leaders are not people who have a doctorate degree in information, a great leader has the innate ability to maneuver difficult circumstances. To find solutions that you cannot look up on google. 

And there is no better prayer to pray during a time of fasting, when your life is open and ready to receive, than the prayer for wisdom. 

 

Than the prayer that your heart understand.

 

Wisdom is not merely mental, it is spiritual and it is in your heart. 

 

1 Kings 4:29says “Now all of the earth sought the presence of Solomon to hear his wisdom, which God put in his heart.”

 

Everybody is seeking out this guy because he doesn’t respond the way they expected him too… 

 

he doesn’t handle situations the way that they taught him in college he was supposed to respond to things. He doesn’t act based on circumstances and his decisions are not based in common sense…

 

He sees in his heart, what nobody else sees because none of them even know what it means to open their hearts like that.

 

Psalm 90:12 - “teach us to number our days that we may gain a heart of wisdom.”

 

Wisdom is not just in your head. The bible references it over and over again as being something that is in your heart. 

 

Proverbs 2:10 says that “Wisdom will enter your heart.” 

 

and I don’t find it a co-incidence, that King David made it such a point in his final moments of his life to affirm this...

 

the man after God’s own heart affirmed Solomon’s wisdom and told him to keep seeking it… 

 

and then when God asks Solomon what he wants… basically God asks Solomon, “What is important to you…”

 

Solomon essentially answers: my heart. 

 

My heart is important to me. 

 

Everything that Solomon writes about wisdom in Proverbs and elsewhere, just about every time, he draws the connection that it rests in his heart. 

 

"What is important to me is my heart."

 

God will you please fill it with everything that is needed to do your will? To do this job that I am totally inadequate and way too young for… 

 

Can we pray that prayer over our own lives? 

 

God give me the heart. 

 

The heart that can look at a situation, and know what you would do.

 

That can look at a situation and know how to meet the need. Know how to “do justice” as the people said about Solomon. 

 

Know how to do the right thing. 

 

Solomon prayed this prayer of wisdom, and suddenly the pieces just started making sense. His dads dream of a physical temple came to pass because the bible says that Solomon had the wisdom that it took to know who the right people were to build it. The bible says that God sent wisdom, understanding, AND THE SKILL to see it get done. 

 

His wisdom drew other wise men who wanted to be involved in the process (1 Kings 7:14)… 

 

He says this in Proverbs 24:3, “By wisdom a house is built” 

 

and by wisdom he built the house of the Lord. 

 

Wisdom attracts. It draws people. 

 

Nobody could reason the way that Solomon did. He knew how to handle circumstances, and he knew how to handle people. All types of people. 

 

Do you want that?

 

the bible tells us that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. The reverence for Jesus… that humble adoration that quickly acknowledges we are but a vapor… dust from the ground who will return to the ground, 

 

and he is the only. wise. God… 

 

who knows everything. Who knows our sicknesses before we feel them in our body. Who knows our weaknesses and our strengths.

 

Solomon knew the secret to answered prayers.

 

Psalm 25:4 - The secret of the Lord is with those who fear him, and he will show them His covenant.

 

The secret to answered prayers is to pray for what God has.

 

God can do anything, but God has wisdom. And he has a covenant that he wants to make with those who fear him. And 1 Corinthians 2 tells us that God’s wisdom is revealed to us by the Holy Spirit. And it tells us that we have not received the spirit of the world, with all the wisdom that the world thinks that it has…

 

We have received the Spirit of the living God. The only spirit that knows what is in the heart of God. 

 

1 Corinthians 2 even tells us that a person who has the spirit can make judgments about all things. 

 

What is stopping us from living our lives in line with the Spirit? What is stopping us from relying on the spirit for the wisdom we so desperately need? 

 

The bible says “ask and it shall be given to you”

 

and I believe that God wants us to ask for wisdom. 

 

There is no prayer in the bible that he answered in a more radical, over the top way than he did this prayer by Solomon. 

 

I believe that He wants us to ask that the Holy Spirit fill us with all of the wisdom that is in heaven so that we can know how to move with it, here on earth, in this Kingdom. 

 

 

 

When Paul writes the Colossian church he tells them that they are praying that the church would know what it means to walk in a manner that is worthy of the Lord. He prays that they will increase their knowledge, that they will keep learning…

 

but the key here is that he prays that they be FILLED with the knowledge of HIS WILL in SPIRITUAL wisdom and understanding. 

 

Wisdom will always stand the test of time. It is how a house is built, and it is how the temple was built. It is how you will know right from wrong… Wisdom will tell you when to be generous, and where to plant seeds.

 

And it will tell you when to walk away. 

 

Wisdom told one man to build his house on the rock when his neighbor was building it on the sand.

 

Wisdom told Isaac to sow in a time of terrible famine… and in the same year he saw a 100 fold return (Gen 26:12) THE SAME YEAR!

 

Wisdom told him to invest in the land when everybody was saying to sell… it told him to dig wells when the Philistines were coming behind him plugging them. 

 

Wisdom saw something that others don't see. 

 

If you are here in this place and you are wondering… “God, where am I going?” 


What is even happening?

What should I do differently?

 

Do I buy this house? Do I move into this neighborhood? Do I start this ministry? Do I do this program?

 

Do I go to college? Do I go into ministry? 

 

Seek wisdom. Ask the Holy Spirit to give this too you. It will launch you to new levels in your life. You will learn how to treat people, and how to manage people, and how to handle people. 

 

It will help us... 

 

to know if we should buy the intern house the first year or rent it… it will help us to know what buildings will get us in over our heads too soon and what projects we can manage. It will help us see what others don't see. 

 

It will show us where our faith can take us and it help us discern what a closed door truly looks like. 

 

Spiritual understanding will help you discern peoples motives. 

It will help you discern peoples hearts and it will help you cultivate yours in such a way that you can best and most effectively serve the people that Jesus has given you to serve. 

 

Lastly, 

 

James 3:17 describes what Godly wisdom actually looks like, and its amazing. “But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere.”

 

All matters of the heart. 

 

if that doesn’t sound like a heart shift, then I don’t know what is. 

 

Wisdom is what we are missing when we don't treat people right, when we fly off the cuff… wisdom is what we are missing when we wage war or show favoritism. 

 

It is impossible to say someone has true wisdom if they don’t have these attributes:

 

Pure.

Peaceable. 

Gentle.

Open to reason.

Full of mercy.

Full of good fruits.

Impartial.

And sincerity.

 

We must earnestly seek these things. 

 

and with our minds already more clear from fasting… and with our hearts hopefully more focused than ever, lets pray this prayer over our lives and over our families and over our church today.

 

“Give us wisdom to discern right from wrong, and an understanding mind as we move into what you have for us for 2016.” 

Worship and Work

My friend Landon is in town. Landon is one of my closest friends. I played in a band called “Hyperbole” with him for many many years traveling the country. We worked together at the Los Angeles Dream Center, and he was a part of what we were doing in New York City.

The first sermon I ever gave was a tag-team message with him. We were a couple of 17 year old punk kids (he was much more punk than I) teaching a message at a youth group Battle of the Bands, about how the hypocrisy of the church doesn’t lessen the perfection of Christ. I suppose in many ways, I am still saying the same thing today.

I will always be against four walls Christianity. I don’t mind gathering, I think gathering is important, but it has to go beyond that. I loved yesterday, we were able to go across the street to Neinas and give kids starting school a backpack full of school supplies. Some of them were really nice, Frozen, Despicable Me, Hello Kitty themes, it was awesome… and those were just left over backpacks from the huge giveaway we did this summer in Clark Park when hundreds of kids got backpacks and a few of them got bikes. I love that stuff. That was what lead Christopher and his son Gabriel to come to our church.

I told you a while back, during the Intentions series, that the word hypocrite was a word used in Jesus’ day to describe a theater actor. Someone who puts on a show. Its a stage actor. It is where we get the phrase “wearing a mask” from because that was theater back then…. they would have to wear different masks to put themselves in different characters. So when people say “you are a hypocrite!” if they know what they are talking about, they are not necessarily saying “you say one thing, and do another.” as much as they are saying “you are being theater.”

or, “You are pretending.”

Whether you are pretending in here, or you are pretending out there, that is hypocrisy.

It is not when you “Don’t do what the bible says” or when you “sin.”

The church should be filled with broken people who screw things up. That is what its all about, it should be a hospital. A gathering of saints around the message of grace serving people out of our own brokenness because Jesus has done such a mighty work in our jacked up lives.

Because nobody gets it perfect. We are all learning and growing and our hearts are wrapping around the gospel in new and radical ways each time we approach it from a different angle. Because that is what the living word does to people. So our attempts at consistency in our believes, in my opinion, sometimes can get in the way of growth.

It is when we try so hard to stay consistent to what we have thought that it said, that maybe we will miss what it really says.

So we read words like hypocrite and we feel convicted because we don’t keep the bible perfectly so we think we can’t tell anybody else about it. But if you are doing that, you are letting the entire message of grace separate itself from your life.

If you live your live out there, and then come in here once a week and try clean the slate, worship Jesus, fall on your face before Him, and repent, just to go out there and get it dirty again out there, I think you are missing it.

and that cycle stems from a misunderstanding of what it actually means to worship Jesus.

But what I think people tend to do, is they separate this life, from that life.

You come to church, and to equip, and that is spiritual. and it saves you from the mess you made of your life all week.

You come in here to worship.

But then you go to work, and that is practical. You pay your bills. You have your friends. You have your world.

Maybe when you go to the marketplace, or you go to your homes, or you are working on school or on a project, that is practical.

That is who you are, when you aren’t here.

But when you come here, you put on your “spiritual self.”

And that makes sense, for a stage actor.

Except it doesn’t work.

You see, In Hebrew, the word for work is the word Avad.

and in Hebrew, the word for worship is the word Avad.

Work and worship are the exact same word. In Exodus 8:1 when Moses tells Pharaoh “Let my people go, so that they can worship me!” He said, “let my people go, so they can avad.

Some translations say: So they can worship.

Some translations say: So they can serve.

But they both mean the same thing.

When it refers to the Israelites as slaves, it is a similar word. They need to stop working for Pharaoh, so they can worship God.

Colossians 3:23-24 puts it this way:

“Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ.”

Some people find it hard to find bible significance to their role in society throughout the week, when they should be approaching every day as worship to Jesus.

But what if you realized that the easiest and most sensible way to live a consistent life is to consistently make your life about worship. You are worshipping when you work. You are worshipping something. You don’t have to work at the church full time to make a full time impact for the gospel.

When we played in the band, we played in churches, and we played in clubs and bars. We played at festivals and we played at rally’s. Sometimes we shared the gospel, sometimes we just put on a concert and didn’t say a word about Jesus but man do all of us love him. And I think that showed in what we did. It was always about Jesus, even when it wasn’t.

What I mean by that, is He is why we did what we did, even if a specific song had nothing to do with Jesus necessarily, and what I know for a fact is that we had an impact on peoples lives whether or not we told them about Jesus personally.

I know that, because I know that the Jesus I worship with every facet of my life, holds the world in his hands. I know that, because Jesus has shown me, time and time again, that that He holds the world in his hands.

One day I was sitting in my pastors house in New York City. It was the first day with the new class of interns we had that year, and we were doing a meet and greet so the staff could meet all of the interns. We had I think it was 8 new students that year, and one of them came up to me said “Are you Jacob Bender?” and I said yes, I am.

Assuming that Jeremy, our intern director at the time, had told him to connect with me to work on creative stuff, videos, graphics, music, something like that.

But that was not why he was approaching me.

He shook my hand, and said to me, “My name is Greg. And I gave my life to Jesus at a Hyperbole concert in Flint, MI several years ago.”

I remembered that show. There was no altar call. There was no prayer. There was just a bunch of kids having a ton of fun dancing to pop punk music.

And the God that we were worshipping that day through fun music that didn’t really feel much like worship, Jesus, the God who holds the world in his hands, was orchestrating such an incredible moment where a teenager was coming to Jesus. A teenager that I did not know, but who would later come and do ministry along side me in New York City.

Because everything is spiritual.

Everything is worship.

That is just one story. I could tell you ten more. And I know in my heart their are hundreds more from our time together traveling that I will never hear. I never would have heard about Greg if he hadn’t come to New York. That one just came full circle in my life. Not every story will come full circle, but every moment matters. Because everything you do, is Avad.

God has placed you in specific places of influence that I will never be able to reach. God has specifically tailored all of our lives in unique ways to make an impact on the people who he knows need us.

That is what the Kingdom of God is all about. Its not about these walls. Its about the people we pass when we leave. Its about the people we bump into walking down the street. Its about the person who sits in the cubicle next to us every day in the office, and the people we have two minute conversations each morning as we begin our workday.

If we define ourselves by who we are because of what Jesus has done, not by what we do, then there will be a NATURAL consistency that goes from our hearts and minds and into our lives…

from our jobs

to our families

to our church community.

and they will see avad. They will see something different. They may not know what it is, but we do. It is worship.

And when we come to this place (the church), it should be a corporate continuation of our daily lives of worship. We should be walking with Jesus in everything we do.

Where is the space?

When I was living in New York City, last winter I gave a message there around Christmas time, and I will likely give a rendition of it sometime here… but one story I told to them was of my family having just moved to Brooklyn, and me asking Milly if she loved our new town. I told her, “its amazing here! There is a great school for you to go to… Its so close to the city… There are so many coffee shops for mommy and daddy… there are

so many toy stores and even more parks to play in!” and she responded, “yeah, and so many tiny rooms!”

Because she and her sisters together shared a bedroom the size of a walk in closet… really it was a closet off of Dawn and I’s room. The space in New York, it is just so limited. For Dawn and I especially, it was challenging… it was very hard to find separation from the kids… even most coffee shops were not really set up to study in. Our commutes were on packed subway cars… so we kind of had to “master” this art of creating through the chaos of our lives. I say master it, but we got no-where near mastering it. I would say, “we somewhat achieved the art of creating through the chaos that was our lives.” When I found myself on the train without kids (which was rare) I would right away, sitting or standing, get out my iPad and either start reading or writing. I would use evernote and I would write for my entire commute when I could, trying to drown out the noise. When I would get home, it would be the same thing… constant noise. Constant needs, and all in this semi-claustrophobic environment.
It made me start to question… I am living in New York, the creative epicenter of the universe… in fact I live in Brooklyn which is like, most writers top choice of anywhere in the world that they would prefer to write from… and I kept finding myself in the same, asking the same question:

Where is the space?

And at first I just figured, oh, “its in Detroit.”

And then I got here and rode the momentum for the first couple of months only to find myself still feeling a bit trapped at times. Still feeling so limited in what I can do even though I know what God wants to do in my life.

I realized that the same limitations that were put on my life in previous cities I have lived in have not been lifted merely because I moved into a place where physical space is cheaper and more attainable. There are real, genuine, super natural things that come against us, that try and eat away our time, eat away our lives.

Our flesh is naturally distracted and easily discouraged. Staying the course is difficult.

1 Timothy 4:14 tells us, “DON’T NEGLECT THE GIFTS THAT ARE INSIDE OF YOU! It says, rather (2 Tim 1:6), to stir them up, or to fan into flame the gift that God gave you.”

But how do you fan into flames your gifts and passions and the God given areas of your life when you have to get up every morning and be at work by 8am? You have to be in class all day, and work a night shift to pay the rent, get home in time to do your homework and get a half a nights sleep before doing it all over again?

How do you fan into flame your gifts when you life itself distracts you from life in Jesus Christ?

We are going to read a fascinating account in Genesis, of Isaac. Isaac is the son of Abraham, he is the one who Abraham at one point almost sacrificed… he put him on an altar before the Lord but then the Lord stopped him. Well, this account is much after all of that. And Abraham, his father, had gone before him and had dug all of these wells… but the Philistines were were jealous and wanted to destroy them, so they went around and they plugged up all of the wells so there would be no access to water.

Suddenly, people would be dying of thirst… of dehydration, because they couldn’t get to the water that was right beneath their feet only a few feet down.

How much of our lives are like that? Everything we need, it is right there. It is right in front of us, or right below us, and yet we don’t do what it takes to actually get it? All it takes is digging. The water is there.

And that is where we will pick up first, in Genesis 26:12-20:

“And Isaac sowed in that land and reaped in the same year a hundredfold. The Lord blessed him, 13 and the man became rich, and gained more and more until he became very wealthy. 14 He had possessions of flocks and herds and many servants, so that the Philistines envied him. 15 (Now the Philistines had stopped and filled with earth all the wells that his father’s servants had dug in the days of Abraham his father.) 16 And Abimelech said to Isaac, “Go away from us, for you are much mightier than we.”

17 So Isaac departed from there and encamped in the Valley of Gerar and settled there. 18 And Isaac dug again the wells of water that had been dug in the days of Abraham his father, which the Philistines had stopped after the death of Abraham. And he gave them the names that his father had given them. 19 But when Isaac’s servants dug in the valley and found there a well of spring water, 20 the herdsmen of Gerar quarreled with Isaac’s herdsmen, saying, “The water is ours.” So he called the name of the well Esek, because they contended with him.

He named the well “Esek” because they contended with him… The word Esek literally means contention. They saw that there was something good… something that Isaacs men had worked for, and when they saw that it was good they fought for it.

As soon as a little success came, he felt pushback. He felt opposition. Isaac has to be thinking here, “man God, I am trying to do what you say. And as soon as it seems like there is a little fruit, I get attacked.” Here they are, taking away from me that which we have worked for.

Its never easy!

Genesis 26:21

“21 Then they dug another well, and they quarreled over that also, so he called its name Sitnah.

The word “Sitnah” means enmity.

It means it will not connect. Everything he is trying to do is failing.

Everything that they were trying to do was not working.

Evelyn Underhill is quoted as saying:

“We mostly spend our lives conjugating three verbs: to Want, to Have, and to Do. Craving, clutching, and fussing, on the material, political, social, emotional, intellectual—even the religious—plane, we are kept in perpetual unrest: forgetting that none of these verbs have any ultimate significance, except so far as they are transcended by and included in, the fundamental verb, to Be: and that Being, not wanting, not having and not doing, is the essence of a spiritual life.”

Perpetual Unrest as a result of us wanting, having, and doing.

You are a child of God. Who has an amazing and beautiful plan already written for you to walk in. And as you try and walk in that, you have to let God create the space for you that it will take to live that calling out. It all comes back to trust.

God has an amazing plan for our church. I believe he has an amazing plan for my family, and for your family, and for our relationships to grow and for our impact to be expanded in our city, but if we constantly try and grab onto the things that are within our reach, God will never make room for the things that are out of our reach.

Genesis 26:22 “And he moved from there and dug another well, and they did not quarrel over it. So he called its name Rehoboth, saying, “For now the Lord has made room for us, and we shall be fruitful in the land.”

He kept pushing. He kept moving on. he kept digging more wells! and at the first sign of a little success, came opposition… It looked like success, then it looked like failure. You think you are out of it, then you are right back in it.

He kept going, and digging more wells, and even after overcoming the the opposition, now there was this feeling of enmity… this feeling of rocks beating against each other but no progress being made… this feeling of, “everything I am doing is not working. There is no progress, there is no forward motion.”

But he keeps going. And then look what happens. They name the third well Rehoboth saying “NOW! The Lord has made room for us!”

The word Rehoboth means SPACE. That well represented God creating space in his world for his people, and them setting up shop right in the middle of it.

Genesis 26:23-25

23 From there he went up to Beersheba (well of the oath – founded by Abraham)… 24 And the Lord appeared to him the same night and said, “I am the God of Abraham your father. Fear not, for I am with you and will bless you and multiply your offspring for my servant Abraham’s sake.” 25 So he built an altar there and called upon the name of the Lord and pitched his tent there. And there Isaac’s servants dug a well.

This is pretty amazing.

Look at what Isaac did differently the last time, as you look over the progression.

There was opposition.

There was enmity.

Then suddenly, there was space.

and when he got up to Beersheba, the well of the oath from his Father… he did something different before digging a well.

This time, first, he built an altar. Then he dug a well.

The water was under him the whole time. The water was there everywhere they went, but at the well of the oath, he built an altar. He called upon the name of the Lord, and THAT IS WHERE he pitched his tent, and then built the well.

We are in a series on the fruit of the spirit, and we just finished “peace.” We talked about the word “shalom” – how it means wholeness, and about what we can learn from the Hebrew word picture because its just so incredibly fascinating. The letters are sheen, lamed, vav and mem and the picture you get for sheen is teeth, to consume or destroy the shepherds staff, lamed, symbolizing authority… vav is the hook that connects something to something or establishes something and mem is the crashing water and it represents chaos. In order to find wholeness, you have to destroy the authority that is establishing chaos in your life… The spiritual authority, we don’t wrestle with flesh and blood and we need to make that clear.

You will never, ever experience the shalom of God if you don’t make room for Jesus to fill you. You will never be complete if you are empty.

And if you are having trouble in your life making space or Jesus, or making space for your gifts and your calling and the things that you believe you were created in Christ Jesus (Ephesians 2:10) to accomplish, look what does Isaac finally does… He builds an altar.

And at an altar, there is a payment, being made on behalf of something else. Something has to be killed in order for something else to find life.

What is taking up the space in your mind? In your heart? In your life?

What is filling the space?

What needs to be laid on the altar to create space in your life for what Jesus wants to do? What has you bound and maybe you don’t even know it?

What is taking your time?

Psalm 31:10 says “my times are in your hand;”

We need to be like David, and place our times into the hands of Jesus. Time is a most valuable asset, and we will waste it if we remain distracted and never create space for the spirit to move in our lives.

There is water below you. What you need, its right here. The space you need in your life, its here. God knows what he is doing. He knows what is best, he gave us the amount of time we need to accomplish the work that he has created us for, and he is in the business of creating space… making room for the people who seek him.

Nine years ago, when I was interning in the youth department at //spyn where pastor Chilly is now the youth pastor… It’s kind of crazy, I was an intern there right as pastor Chilly and some of you guys really were just beginning this church in Detroit, and now he leads //spyn and Dawn and I are here. I worked alongside Johnny K, under the leadership of Pastor Ricardo.

Every morning at 8am we would come in, and for an hour, we would have what we called “No Agenda.” We just prayed. We came in with no tasks to talk about or specifics to pray about, we just prayed. And it was one of the most fruitful, creative seasons of my life. Every morning, before we dove into anything practical, we created space for it. And Jesus moved big time.

So that is what we are going to do tonight. We are going to create space, right now, for Jesus to work in our lives.

Community and Healing

Luke 5:17-26

17 On one of those days, as he was teaching, Pharisees and teachers of the law were sitting there, who had come from every village of Galilee and Judea and from Jerusalem. And the power of the Lord was with him to heal. 18 And behold, some men were bringing on a bed a man who was paralyzed, and they were seeking to bring him in and lay him before Jesus, 19 but finding no way to bring him in, because of the crowd, they went up on the roof and let him down with his bed through the tiles into the midst before Jesus. 20 And when he saw their faith, he said, “Man, your sins are forgiven you.” 21 And the scribes and the Pharisees began to question, saying, “Who is this who speaks blasphemies? Who can forgive sins but God alone?” 22 When Jesus perceived their thoughts, he answered them, “Why do you question in your hearts? 23 Which is easier, to say, ‘Your sins are forgiven you,’ or to say, ‘Rise and walk’? 24 But that you may know that the Son of Man has authority on earth to forgive sins”—he said to the man who was paralyzed—“I say to you, rise, pick up your bed and go home.” 25 And immediately he rose up before them and picked up what he had been lying on and went home, glorifying God. 26 And amazement seized them all, and they glorified God and were filled with awe, saying, “We have seen extraordinary things today.”

We ended our series on Intentions, talking about Community. Talking about how much we need each other… about how no man is an island, and the reality is that there will come times in your life when you will need someone to lean on… you will need someone who is willing to carry your burdens… who will weep with you, who will mourn with you… Thats what (Romans 12:15) says… we rejoice with those who rejoice, but we also weep with those who weep… we mourn with those who mourn. We allow hard times to build us into a stronger community, one that can withstand the attacks of the enemy… one that can withstand the times that we feel numb… or we feel lost… or we feel like there is nothing that we can do.

This passage in Luke is one of my favorite passages in the whole bible. Its a beautiful moment in which Jesus heals a man who was paralyzed. Who had no where to turn. Who was numb. He couldn’t even move… but his friends, they could still move. And what did they do? They came alongside this man, and they fought! They knew, he needs Jesus, certainly Jesus can heal him… But the crowd was to large… to many people, and there was no way to get them in… so they went gangster.

They somehow get this man onto the top of the roof of this house… We all love the fact that they cut a whole in someones roof and lowered the man down to Jesus… but how did they raise him onto the roof? The whole thing would have taken an enormous amount of work. But just like James says (James 2:14-17) Faith without works is dead. We can have faith all day for the reconciliation of our City… for the reconciliation of Detroit back to Jesus, but if we aren’t working for it, its dead. It won’t happen. At least not on account of us.

These men, they could have had all the faith in the world that Jesus could heal their friend, but if they didn’t take action then that man would have died still paralyzed… never walking again. But no, they worked. They raised him up onto that roof, the cut a hole in the roof of the house large enough to lower the man through, and then lowered him.

But look at what it says…

When Jesus saw THEIR faith to said to THE MAN… “Man, your sins are forgiven.”

It doesn’t say that he saw the faith of the man who needed the healing… Jesus healed this man because of the faith of his friends.

Because he saw THEIR FAITH… he said to the paralyzed man… your sins are forgiven, and then he healed him.

This is why we put such an emphasis on community in our church. Because there are going to be moments when you won’t be able to carry yourself… but there are plenty of others who will be able to.

When I spoke two Sundays ago, I told the story of how there was a series of events that happened all one after another in the course of 24 hours…

The first one was Zach went to the hospital.

Then I found out about my friend David, that he was killed in New York.

Then the next morning I found out that my pastors father passed away.

and then that evening I got call from my mom, and I didn’t share the details of this during service because she wanted to wait until a few tests came back… but she called to tell me that she had been diagnosed with cancer. Again. 12 years ago she had cancer, and she fought it and she won. She had been clean of it for 12 years… but when she called to tell me that it was back, especially after having the day I had had so far… I just went numb. I literally said to her “Don’t tell me that. Not today.” I couldn’t even begin to tell you what I was feeling, I couldn’t even get to a point that day where I could process any of it. Dawn and I went to dinner, and I didn’t say a word. I just sat there, and acted all dumpy. 

Its easy to believe in the power of healing, when its all just a theory.

Its easy to believe in the sovereignty of God, when its all just a theory.
But when the day comes when your faith is really tested, it is hard to do what James says… its hard to count it all joy. Yet we know, because we have read it and been taught it over and over and over and over…

(James 1:2-4)

When your faith is tested… it will produce steadfastness

And when steadfastness has reached its full effect… you will be perfect.

Complete. 

Lacking nothing. 

Isn’t that what we all want? To be complete. To know that we are all that we are supposed to be… to know that we did all we can do, and that God used us in exactly the way that he wanted to? 

When I heard my mom tell me those words… I didn’t feel complete. I actually felt really alone. My kids were all in the house running around, yelling… I was telling them to be quiet so I could listen to the words that my mom was sharing with me… I was surrounded by children, on the phone with my mother, about to go and meet up with my wife, and I felt alone.

Because my faith was being tested, and i was shutting down to it. But when I began to talk about it, to work it out a little bit in the context of community, to open up to my family a little, to share my heart with other people in the church, even if they were nothing more than a listening ear I felt like they were carrying my burdens with me.

When I finally opened up to my wife about it, it just felt like suddenly she was carrying it with me. She was lightening my load… I realized, “man, if I need this, then other people need it too…” I text my sister who lives in Georgia, and i asked her “Are you okay?” – How can I help carry her load? She just responded to me “No. Not really. I hate that I am down here… I hate that we live here right now.” – and strangely, that inspired me… the next day I told Dawn, “after church Sunday we need to go to Lansing. For 8 years we didn’t live close to family, now we do… we can be there. And we went… and honestly, I didn’t really even think about making that trip until I got that text from my sister… about her saying “I can’t be with them right now, and its killing me.” So we went and just spent some time with my mom. Let her spend some time with her grandkids.

I was in New York this week and I was talking with my Pastor there. He was asking me “How nice is it that your parents are able to go to your church?” and I told him… “Man, I don’t even feel right telling you this with everything you have gone through in the last couple of weeks… but we aren’t sure how much longer they are going to be able to come… my moms cancer came back, and they may need to move down south for treatment, we aren’t sure yet.”

And I literally could feel him taking on that burden, right there with me. Maybe for him it just hit so close to home, he had just went through something horrible, and I could see him break a little for me… for my family.  It was community. It was someone weeping with me while I weep.
Community and healing, they go hand in hand. Jesus healed this man because of the faith of his friends…

faith that was not dead and without works… but the faith of his friends that took action and did the most unconventional thing possible to get that man close to Jesus.

Maybe you are here and you say “I don’t need anything right now” – but maybe someone else needs your faith, for their miracle. Maybe I need your faith, for my Mom’s miracle. 

Come alongside each other. 

We need your faith.

I need your faith.

Courage Church needs your faith.

Detroit needs your faith.

carry each other burdens.

 

Petitions

There is a moment in Pauls letter to the Romans, in chapter 15.. He is excited about visiting Rome… he just can’t wait, he had wanted to go to Rome and be with the church there for so long, and an opportunity was coming for him to do just that. But before he went to Rome, he would first go to Jerusalem.

We read about this in Acts 20, when Paul is talking to the elders in Ephesus, and he says this… “I am compelled by the Spirit… the Greek word he uses is “deo ho pneuma” which means to be wrapped up in the Spirit, to go to Jerusalem… things were going great in the church in Ephesus… there was fruit… people were changing, they were growing… but the Holy Spirit clear as day told him, go to Jerusalem.

But Jerusalem was not the most friendly place for a christian to go.

It is in this conversation with the elders, recorded in Acts that Paul says these words: “I am constrained by the Spirit, NOT KNOWING what will happen to me there, except that the Holy Spirit testifies to me in every city that IMPRISONMENT and AFFLICTION wait for me.”

then he says this:

BUT… I do not count my life of any value nor as precious to myself, if only I may finish my course and the ministry that I received from the Lord Jesus, to testify to the gospel of the grace of God. It is the verse Pastor Chilly usedwhen he announced to the whole church that he would be transitioning out of the role of Pastor of Courage church.

So that is where his mind is, at the time of writing this letter to the Romans. He wants to visit them, he is planning to visit them, but first, he has been wrapped up by the Spirit and compelled to go to Jerusalem where he believes imprisonment and affliction await him… so he sends these words to the Romans… He says in Romans 15:30:

I urge you, to join me in my struggle by praying to God for me.” 

He knew that the people in Rome were not going to necessarily join him in Jerusalem. But he needed them. He needed to know they had his back, and so he says this… Join me in my struggle, by praying.

We join people in their struggle when we pray for them. We are locking arm in arm with the hurting, the broken, the lonely, the lost… we are locking arm in arm with the person waiting to hear back about that test result, or waiting to hear back about if they got the job they applied for. 

We are locking arm in arm with the other pastors and churches in our city… with the missionaries we are sending to other cities and other nations.

We are coming beside people, where they are, and fighting on their behalf.

The people of our city need people who will fight along side them. They need people who will lock, arm in arm with them and let them know, “you are not alone.”

I love what the new American commentary says about this moment. It says:

“The Roman Christians were one with Paul in their love for Christ. This provided the essential motive for their entering into the problem he faced. An additional motive was the love inspired by the Spirit. Awareness of a fellow believer’s difficult situation will move the authentic Christian to join that person in prayer.”

Are we one? Are we all members of one body, joined together by our love for Christ? Fighting for each other. Sharing in each others burdens and lightening each others loads?

Are we struggling with each other in prayer?

For me, its always about the tangible. About the practical. About how we meet the physical needs… if someone is hungry, you feed them. If they are thirsty, you give them something to drink. If they are in a fight, you stand next to them, or even in front of them. But the bible says so many times and in so many ways that even though there will be times to tangibly take action, this is how we fight for people. We do it by prayer.

Ole Hallesby says in his book, prayer: “As far as I can see, prayer has been ordained only for the helpless…. Prayer and helplessness are inseparable. Only he who is truly helpless can truly pray.” 

Prayer is a sign of utter and complete dependency on God. It should be an outflow of that. Of how lost we are on our own. Of how weak we are on our own.

Romans 12:15 says “you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!”

Prayer is just that. It’s crying “Abba Father.” It’s a desperation for our Father. It’s complete dependency on Jesus for the things that we can never ever maneuver in our own selves. It’s the young child who is so dependent on his parents for everything… Who is completely lost without them. Jesus says that unless you turn and become like a child (Matthew 18:1-3), then you can’t even enter the kingdom of God. Children are dependent on God. And God says if you want to be strong… You have to be weak.

You have to know that without him you are nothing. But he can do anything. And he gave us the church because as a body, together, we can do so much more… He is saying, are you not strong enough? 

I am.

Are you not strong enough? Maybe by yourself you aren’t, but together you are. Together you are the church. My redemptive plan to save humanity. 

Together you are a body. Together you are my bride.

I know for me… If someone has a problem that is bigger than themself… and they come to me to help solve it… if it is bigger than them odds are it is bigger than me too.  yet Jesus says (Matthew 18:19) that when any two agree on earth and ask anything, it will be done for them.

And he starts by saying “Again I say to you…
Again.

Jesus is saying this over and over and over. Because he works in settings like these. When people come together in his name. 

But they have to ask.

That’s why we come together. To ask. To take our petitions before God as a body.

I got a text message this morning from Zack. He had some swelling on his face so he went into an urgent care… If you know Zack, it must have been alarming him if he actually took himself in… But they sent him to the Emergency room and he is there now… He is always the most faithful guy, he’s always here, he’s always helping. He is our friend.  So want to make sure we are praying for him tonight. I want us to struggle on his behalf.

And like I said, I am all about the tangible. It’s been killing me all that I haven’t been able to get to Royal Oak yet to see him… And he has only been there a few hours.

Paul knew that the petitions of the Romans would only help him. They didn’t need to be in the same room or even in the same country… they just needed to agree on earth together.

Jesus Cleanses the Temple

John 2:13-20

13 The Passover of the Jews was at hand, and Jesus went up to Jerusalem. 14 In the temple he found those who were selling oxen and sheep and pigeons, and the money-changers sitting there. 15 And making a whip of cords, he drove them all out of the temple, with the sheep and oxen. And he poured out the coins of the money-changers and overturned their tables. 16 And he told those who sold the pigeons, “Take these things away; do not make my Father’s house a house of trade.” 17 His disciples remembered that it was written, “Zeal for your house will consume me.

18 So the Jews said to him, “ What sign do you show us for doing these things?” 19 Jesus answered them, “Destroy this temple, and in three days I will raise it up.”

Here we are right…right now, in this place. As I write this I am sitting in our sanctuary. A few hours from now, I will be joined by a handful of people who come together to pray.

Every time I walk into this sanctuary, I feel different. I feel the spirit moving. It’s like he is always here. I know that he is with us every day, in all our lives… But here… This place…. There is something different. I feel the weights of everything out there lifted off of me when I come into is place.

A lot of people struggle with this set of scriptures that I just read. Jesus throughout most instances in the gospel has been so peaceful… Almost to the point of a pacifist… Yet here he is making whips and driving people out of the temple… Something must have struck a nerve with him to suddenly make such a shift.

Here is what was happening in the temple.

The temple is the place that a person goes to be forgiven. The sin offering was usually a perfect goat or a lamb. And some people would travel long distances to get to the temple.

So imagine you have sinned… You need forgiveness.

But the temple is in Toronto. 

A far away place.

Also a place with a different form of currency from here.

And you don’t have a car…

You are like Dawn and I and you ride your bike everywhere… But how do you carry a lamb on your bike?

In a car that’s about a four hour drive… According to Google maps, walking, it would take approximately 3 days (and 2 hours) via the Bentpath line.

That’s without dragging a lamb with you.

It would be much more convenient to take your money with you and buy the sacrifice in Toronto, than it would be to take the lamb all the way from Detroit with you… That would slow you down terribly.

So people were doing that, they were traveling long distances, from other countries even, and taking money rather than sacrifice. And that’s ok, because at the temple, you could buy the sacrifice.

The only problem was, you couldn’t use your foreign currency. 

Say you are from Rome, and you want to use a Roman Denarii… Well this coin was unacceptable in the temple because it had pagan symbols and images of emperors…

But you could exchange your money, for money that was acceptable to buy the sacrifice… At the temple.

So not only had the church become a store… 

It had also become a bank.

There is speculation as to whether or not the rates were fair, or if the priests were ripping people off… And it is also questionable as to if the church should be offering these sacrifices in the first place… Essentially monetizing the forgiveness of sins when it was really only intended to be an altar for it.,, But Jesus came in and said… Nope. This can’t happen. This is my fathers house. It’s not a store. It’s not a bank. Stop now.

The 95 theses

Perhaps some of you have studied or are familiar with church history. But essentially, the Protestant reformation and the split from the Roman Catholic Church essentially happened over a very similar issue.

On October 31, 1517, Martin Luther nailed what is now known as the 95 theses to the door of the castle church in Guttenburg. This famous list was a slap in the face to the Catholic Church, and really a declaration of war against them… He went after the sacred cows…. He called them out on all the things they were doing that were not like Jesus… Possibly the most significant being the selling of indulgences.

People would come to the church to confess a sin, and then the church would place a price… An actually monetary amount, that it would cost for that sin to be “forgiven.”

They were monetizing forgiveness.

And everyone either accepted this, or turned a blind eye to it…. Until Martin Luther came along.

He said “this is wrong.”

You guys are robbing people. What does the bible say? If you confess your sins I am faithful to forgive you… Not if you pay for your sins with dollars and cents…

Jesus already paid for your sins.

But the Catholic Church had veered from that. They had gotten off track. It had become about something other than grace….

It had become about money.

And Martin Luther said no!

He almost sounds like Jesus.

When it says he made a whip of cords (v15)… A more accurate translation is “a rush”

A rush is a Reed… It’s completely harmless. It’s s plant. He made a whip out of a plant. He wasn’t hurting anybody. He was not intending to hurt anybody. Which actually makes for a fascinating point…. One that these people in the temple make clear in verse 18.

They ask him “what sign do you show us for doing these things?” But in verse 15 it says they were driven out by him. What were they asking him? Essentially, they were saying… What happened back there? Why did we feel like you had the authority to do what you did?

Because they couldn’t possibly have been afraid of being hurt by Jesus… No..

Yet they still left. They rushed out. And they didn’t know why.

They were convicted. So they asked for a sign… They ask him, where did you get this authority…

We felt it… 

But it doesn’t make sense to us. Why do you think you can take control of the temple… You aren’t the priest…

And that’s what makes Jesus response so fascinating.

He answers them….

“Destroy this temple, and in three days I will raise it up”

What’s he saying? He’s saying i am the temple. 

Why do I make the rules in the temple?

Because I am the temple. You’ll see, when you’ve thought you destroyed me.

Malachi 3:2-3

“who can endure the day of his coming, and who can stand when he appears? For he is like a refiner’s fire and like fullers’ soap. 3 He will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver, and he will purify the sons of Levi and refine them like gold and silver, and they will bring offerings in righteousness to the Lord.”

Who can stand in his presence, and not be refined by it?

Here is where it hits home.

Was Jesus upset because people had turned the church into a kind of market?

Yes. But that’s more just annoying than anything. We are talking about the savior of the world…

He knew he was going to die for all this junk… All this greed. For All these people who were only looking out for themselves….

 

And that… is… the point.

He was going to die. The sacrifices that were being made were mere symbols of what was to come…

What was to come ON HIM.

When he says “you have made it a house of trade” the Greek word he uses is the the enporion…. It literally means market or emporium. 

But think about it. Think about you when you are your worst. When you did the things that you would give anything to distance yourself from that sin… It was that moment that Christ died for… “He made him who knew NO sin” to be YOUR SIN….

He knew this was coming… He knew this was a big deal… And these people did too.

But they were cheapening it.

When the Israelites in the Old Testament would take a lamb to the altar… It was a real moment for them… It was a real exchange. There was reflection… There was thanksgiving.

Because it should be them on that altar. The wages of sin is death… And it’s their sin that cost the lamb it’s life.

And suddenly, in the temple of all places, it became a nonchalant thing.

Everything had a price tag. And that’s what they are thinking about. When you make a sacrifice like that… It should do something to you… Because it should be you on that altar. It should fill you with praise and adoration and thanksgiving toward God… Because nothing about this exchange is fair but God accepts it anyway..

But by monetizing the process… You have created a new system for forgiveness.

when you go into a market place, somewhere like the mall… You expect an even exchange… If you spend fifty dollars on a pair of shoes, you expect to get fifty dollars worth of life out of those shoes.

But that’s not the gospel.

Maybe you look for a sale… And you are hoping to get a one hundred dollar pair of shoes for fifty dollars….

Still not the gospel. The gospel is not a sale price or a great deal… And it’s certainly not an even exchange.

The gospel is more like you looking at a shoe that there is no way you will ever be able to afford, and someone else coming and buying the entire store now.

Now you own the store.

There was no sale price… In fact it cost him everything that he had..he had to empty all his accounts and liquidate his assets to get them for you… He held nothing back.

Wouldn’t you be thankful?

I am not trying to cheapen the gospel to shoes… It’s so much more than that.. But the point is that what takes place in a market is even exchange. But what the gospel gave us is “the great exchange.”

These people making these sacrifices should be reflecting… They should have reflected their whole journey to the temple.

This place is special. 

This place is Holy.

That’s why It says “Zeal for your house will consume me…” 

Jesus loves the temple. There is something about that place.

In Matthews gospel, he records Jesus saying this in the temple: (21:13)

“My house shall be called a house of prayer,’ but you make it a den of robbers.”

Throughout the bible, we get plenty of clear direction for the church.. For what it is supposed to be as a body… 

A living organism.

An engine of change in our community.

A group of people who loves God with all our heart and soul and mind and loves our neighbors like ourselves…

Who makes discipled…. Who equips the saints for the work of the ministry…

But we don’t read much in there about the purpose of the church building.

But we read this: My house shall be called a house of prayer.

Prayer is about connecting to God.

And it’s a place we should come reverently too. And that’s why.

This Sunday, we are starting a new series, about intentions. About our motives. About what are we actually bringing to these altars. I may even tell this bit that I just gave you on one of the weeks, I am not sure yet…

But what I know for sure is that this Sunday we are going to call people to repentance. That’s out of my zone a little, I am a grace guy.

And we will do it gracefully. But one thing we are going to show is the difference in what 1 John 1:9 says, and what James 5:16 says.

See John says that if you confess you sins, God is faithful and just to forgive you… If you bring it before God, you will be forgiveness…

And he will forgive you! Psalms says he washes your transgressions as far as the east is from the west…

But James 5:16 says that we confess to each other… For healing.

And I just believe that God wants to heal our city, and it starts with us.